Mom...

Mom...
I can't have any more kids, I don't have any more arms!

Monday, October 21, 2013

Summer Recap

A few highlights from summer...


Reading a book to Bear :)

This boy turned into a fish!!!!!!

We went to the pool a lot!

Lots of progress was made

Someone got all tired out at the pool :)

Backyard cookouts!

Playing on our playground

Fun at Lake Steilacoom!

Everyone had fun...:)

VBS! (Kaarin went too, but she was sick this night)

Golf! Kaarin & Annika took their first lessons!

Wednesday, October 9, 2013

Sequim Girls' Weekend

My mom, sister & I went away for a girls' weekend to Sequim. We rented a friend's house & had a PERFECT weekend!!! The weather was perfect, the company was fun, & we just had a great time!! We couldn't have asked for more!!











First day of school!

School officially started the end of Aug. for Kellen & Annika, & mid-September for Kaarin! They were all so excited!! 


Annika - Kindergarten

Kellen - 1st grade

Kaarin - Pre-K




Monday, September 23, 2013

Un-medical insurance part 2

I recently wrote a post regarding us dropping our traditional medical coverage for a different type of plan, considered to be a health sharing plan. October 1 marks our 1 year anniversary on the plan, & fortunately I can say that we haven't had to use it too much!! We have had 2 claims in the past year, 1 for my ear infection, which was still a relatively small amount, & 1 for Kaarin's cyst that abscessed, a not small amount. :) We have had a few other Dr. appts. that weren't covered; a physical for each of us, a visit to the orthopedist for me (ganglian cyst on my wrist), little things like that. Fortunately almost every provider we've seen offers a discount anywhere from 20%-50% off for paying cash. (These appts. weren't covered because, if you remember, we are responsible for the first $300 in each incident...so these appts. all added up to less than that & couldn't be combined into an incident)

As we look back, we are certainly blessed that we didn't have any other BIG things come up, things that certainly could be bank-breaking (to pay cash & then be reimbursed) & stressful. But at the same time, I feel so much more peace to be sending my $370/month to a PERSON to be reimbursed than to a CORPORATION that is no more concerned about me than the next person on their list.

I just wanted to offer to chat with any of you (again) who are fed up with insurance agencies who continually raise premiums & offer fewer benefits & less coverage...ALSO, this plan DOES count under the Obamacare requirement to have 'insurance.' (woot!) So let me know if I can answer any questions for you! :)

Thursday, July 25, 2013

More GOOT testimony

Last night, I slowly woke up realizing that a small body was behind me, playing with my hair. I had only been asleep about an hour, so I was deeply into it. After a few minutes, she whispered, "Mom, my ear hurts.  Will you put some garlic medicine in it?" I didn't immediately get up, so she asked again. I told her I would have to warm it up, so it would take a little while. I trudged into the kitchen to warm it in a bowl of warm water, hoping again that it would work. When I came back to my bed, I think she was already back to sleep. I dropped a few drops into her ear & brushed some on her feet. This woke her up. She didn't care for the feeling of the oil dripping down into her ear (it really is unpleasant to drop liquid into your ear), so she started shouting, "It tickles & hurts! Get it out! My ear hurts!!!!!" This went on for awhile, when I finally got a rag & started massaging her ear to help the oil get all the way in. We both went back to sleep, then I woke up about an hour later. I rolled over, & she woke up again. She started crying out, over & over, "My ear hurts, my ear hurts!!!" I tried to calm her down but finally got up to get her some tylenol (which she didn't want to take, lol) just to take the edge off. She finally took it & quieted down after about 10 minutes. This was now 3:30 a.m., & I was fairly positive that we were going to be making a visit to the Dr. today. She woke up today about 9:30, happy as can be. :) She said her ear hurts when she burps, but other than that she has been fine all day! And we didn't have to go to the Dr.! :)

Sunday, July 21, 2013

Thinking Outside the Box...


Are you tired of paying insurance companies (I'm talking health, here) a lot of $$$ each month for premiums, for what seems like very little coverage until you pay off your deductible? I certainly was. Erik has his insurance paid for by his work, so his premiums are at least covered. I'm not sure what his deductible is, but last summer he went to the ER with kidney stones & WITH insurance it cost us about $2400. out-of-pocket. The kids & I have been on a catastrophic plan: we receive a physical for 'free' every year, have an individual deductible of $7,000 & a family deductible of $10,000. We chose that plan because most of the things we end up sick with are things we don't actually need medical care to treat -- colds, flu, ear infections. So this was just to cover us in case something really bad came along...which we pray never does. But even on this catastrophic plan, our premiums were going up 40% last year (!!!), so we were going to be paying about $650./month for 1 Dr. visit per year (figure an annual physical costs about $100 - $150 out of pocket, times 4 of us, 1 month's premium would pretty much cover it....). I was pretty fed up (it's one thing when your employer is covering these costs, it's another when they come out of your own pocket...). So we started looking around, asking other people what they did (it's a rare thing to find an employer who pays for the whole family's premiums), & thinking a little more outside the box. We bought a Vitamix so that we could make smoothies & increase our fruit/veggie/superfood intake. We started looking at alternatives to health insurance. This is what we found:

We switched to what is called a 'health sharing plan.' It is through a faith-based organization called Samaritan Ministries ( http://samaritanministries.org ). It is based on a Bible verse in Galatians: “Bear one another’s burdens and so fulfill the law of Christ.”  This is how it works: we pay a monthly 'premium' of $370 for all FIVE of us. But we don't pay it to Samaritan. We pay it to other Samaritan members who have submitted a 'need' request, thereby reimbursing them for medical expenses they have paid out-of-pocket.

Here's how it has worked for us: In December, I woke up with a massive ear infection (on a Sunday, of course, December 23rd). I went to Urgent Care. As a cash patient they actually gave me a discount, so my office visit cost $85.  I ended up getting a bill for a bit more, as the Dr. plucked some wax out of my ear as well, so I was billed separately for that. I also picked up an antibiotic, & was referred to an Ear-Nose-Throat Dr. All of these bills relating to my ear were considered 1 incident. Each member is responsible for the first $300 of each incident, but can be reimbursed for the rest. So I saved all my receipts, called Samaritan for a need request form, filled it out, & sent it back in. Then members sent ME their 'premium' to reimburse me for my expenses. Pretty cool, huh?

Another case: When we were in California & Kaarin had her abscess (you can read about that in another post), we had to pay for all of the Dr. visits, ER, etc. But amazing things happened: the Drs. all gave us cash patient discounts. The ER knocked $1400 off of our bill. I called to pay one bill (lab work) for $197. & was told the balance was $0. AND, while each member is responsible for the first $300, if you get reductions in your bills for being a cash patient, Samaritan counts that toward your $300 -- so in this case, I will be reimbursed for the FULL amount we paid out of pocket toward her care!!!!

If Erik had had Samaritan (you can have it in addition to insurance, they will count insurance payments toward you $300 portion) when he went to the ER, we would have paid at most $300, not $2400. Ouch.

Now, there are a few drawbacks, as with anything: it does not cover dental (however, dental premiums on most insurance plans are MUCH cheaper). If you have a lot of 'single' incidents (Dr. visits not relating, or for different people), the $300 piece can add up quickly. You have to be much more meticulous about your health care statements (shouldn't we be, anyway?), as you have to provide more than just a receipt for what you paid. :) Some medications are not covered. There is a $$ amount cap. You can't be covered for things that are pre-existing when you sign up until you are free & clear for 1 yr. (which rules out all birth defects & related costs, or other chronic illnesses). So if Erik had had another bout with kidney stones, his bills would not have been covered unless it had been a year. They do offer for those things to be submitted as a 'special prayer need' & people can send you a bit extra if they feel like it, so you could still be reimbursed. I am submitting Erik's bills from his kidney stones even though he wasn't on the plan yet as a special prayer need.  But, overall, it has caused us to be much more thoughtful in what we go to the Dr. for, we have experimented with home remedies (read the posts on GOOT), & we have worked hard to improve our health so that we just get sick less often. Obviously, some things can't be avoided -- Kaarin's abscess is one example. But instead of relying on medicine & Drs. to provide us with HEALTH, we are doing everything we can to be in control of our health (I will post more on this later!).

Please feel free to ask me any questions about this. I am happy to answer!

Saturday, July 20, 2013

Behold, the power of GOOT....

I have posted about this before, but I think it's worth posting about again. I often wonder as I do it if the previous time was a fluke, & if I will actually end up taking a child to the Dr.

We were out running a few errands on Thursday, & Kaarin started complaining that she was cold. We were in air-conditioning, & it was starting to feel a little chilly. By the time we got home, though, & she was still complaining, I investigated a little further. She was BURNING up. She went in & took a nap, & after that I took her temperature: 103.7. Pretty high. When she went to bed at around 9:00, I put some goot on her feet & a little on one lymph area (under her left ear). She woke up around midnight & had to go to the bathroom, so we snuggled a little bit before I took her back to bed. And guess what? Her fever was GONE. Her body was no longer hot, she wasn't complaining of being cold, she was so much better. I checked her temperature the next morning, & it was normal & she has been fine ever since. Yay!!