January seems to be a time of reflection, & this year was no different. I have been feeling a little frustrated, mostly with myself, feeling like I spend so much time focusing on keeping the house in order (which you can't even tell, so I don't know why I worry about it) & just give my kids "free time" to play during the couple hours we're home in the morning. We've always had a schedule, even since they were infants, but the schedule was pretty vague in some areas. So I decided to do a little revamping of the schedule in hopes that certain parts of our day would become not only a little bit easier but also a little bit more intentional on my part. I had a little bit of inspiration: my friend Jodi started a blog on January 1st called Meaningful Mama (http://www.meaningfulmama.blogspot.com/). Her goal is to help parents be more intentional (aha!) in their parenting, but she also has tips & character training ideas. I only started implementing my own new schedule less than 2 weeks ago, so I haven't had a chance (um...organization is still in process) to try some of her ideas, but I fully intend to. The other piece of inspiration came from my other friend Jody, who a couple of months ago suggested to me that we turn our garage into a playroom. (Apparently the Jodys have it figured out, lol). Anyway, at the time I was trying to visualize how that would look & how I would convince Erik that he didn't really need a garage...so as I was putting my plan together, I decided it would be easier to convince him by showing him rather than telling him.:) So I got to work. The first thing I did was figure out the basics of our schedule & write it out. If it's something we do a majority of days, it goes on the schedule. If it's something we do less often (such as a play date or field trip) it is on green paper to attach temporarily into a certain spot on the schedule (I don't think I have a picture of this, I'll have to add it). I laminated all of these so that I can use dry-erase markers to write who/where we are going that is special. I also put velcro tabs on the schedule next to each part, had the kids decorate an oval with their name on it, & now they move their names along the schedule as we go. This not only provides a visual of our whole day, but it helps them keep track of where we are in the day. I put a few visuals on the schedule, but mostly it is written. To set up the garage, the first thing I did was to move an art table (we have 2, after our neighbor gave us one!) out there. I still have some finishing touches to do on the space, but overall I am pleased with what I have turned it into.:) Eventually I might move more out there, we'll see. What we DO out there now is all of our MESSY art! Yes! And I have a spot set up for our sensory boxes (beans, water, shaving cream, etc.) & also the easel. I found in the past that these activites required too much set up & clean up & I just didn't do them as often as I should have. NOW -- there is a different project waiting for them in the garage every day, & they are SO excited about it!! I frequently hear them saying, "This is so fun!" I also bought a little storage drawer set to hold all the supplies - paint, shaving cream, etc. Then it is accessible & ready to go & it requires less work on my part to get it set up for them. So here are a few pictures to show how it works:
Kellen is playing with one of the 'choices' activities. We have a 'choices' board on the wall for this time (usually in the morning, on the days Annika doesn't go to school) & they stick their name by the activity that they choose (there's a picture of it later on). They are certainly not limited to the 6 activities that I put out, but they generally choose those activities first.:) This also allows me to rotate through toys that otherwise might get overlooked on the closet shelf.
Kaarin is playing in the bean box.:)
Art time -- today's activity was stamps & stamp pads. These were brand new, so they were pretty exciting!:) For now, I have some bamboo mats set up under the table but I plan to get some kind of carpet or carpet squares to make it a little warmer. I do have a heater on the opposite side of the table that I turn on as we are eating breakfast so that it is 'warm' by the time it's choices time. So far, no one has complained about being cold.:)
Here is the choices board: they put their name by the activity that they choose to play with. There are certain activities that only 1 or 2 may play with at a time. I cut pictures out of my Lakeshore catalog to show what the activity choice is, & then laminated them & stuck velcro on the back so that it is really easy to change them out before I go to bed. I need to do a few more with photographs of toys that were not in the catalog but I also have one that is generic for an activity that doesn't have a tag yet.
Look at how nicely they are playing!!:) (They are supposed to have completed their morning 'chores' - getting dressed, brushing their teeth, etc., before making choices, but sometimes they are just too excited & I let it slide a little).:)
Here's our schedule: it's probably a little bit tough to read, but you get the idea. And let me say this: we still don't follow it exactly. For instance, 8:00 Good morning is a stretch most mornings, other than when we have to head out to school, so we typically don't move to choices time until later than what the schedule says. (As you can see on this day, only 2 of the kids were actually up - one was still at 'good night') So we don't usually have a morning snack or do a morning art project (other than what's set out for their choices art) because I just don't need to break up the time as much as it appears. However, it gives me the flexibility if I do need to.:) And our outside/movement time could be a music CD (Hap Palmer & Greg & Steve have some excellent 'indoor' motion songs that are super helpful during these long winter months when it is cold & raining - though we do still go out in that weather!). I am aiming at being more intentional about moving our bodies, as I had let this slide a bit.
Mom...
I can't have any more kids, I don't have any more arms!
Saturday, January 28, 2012
School...
Well, the time has come to leave our cozy little comfortable pre-school at Little Church on the Prairie...at least for one kid. We have just started our research for schools for next year (kindergarten) for Kellen. And I have to say, at this point, my findings are farily disappointing.:( Granted, we have only been to 2 open houses at private schools, & I haven't called the public schools that I need to call, but most of the information out there is not fitting our boy. Some of these might sound like 'excuses' or 'lame reasons' to not choose a school, but I have acknowledged that, at least for now, these are our reality. And our kids are still young, so I am not going to make the time miserable by choosing something that just really doesn't fit us right now. For instance, all of the private schools so far that we have attended open houses for (Life Christian & Charles Wright) are full day K programs. And so is Heritage Christian. I really feel like Kellen will do better with another year in half day, for a variety of reasons that I won't go in to here. Cascade Christian has a half day program, but that's #2: most of the programs we have looked at start at 8:00 - 8:30 in the morning. (This is where the excuses & lame reasons really come in, but again, our reality...) Pretty much every day, my earliest riser is UP between 8-8:30, & my latest riser is up between 9-10. I have tried to change their patterns, & it is not pretty. They already go to bed between 7-8 most every night, so I can't really put them to bed earlier. The other night Kaarin went to bed at 7:00 p.m. & I had to wake her up at 8:30 a.m. Reality: 8:00 start time is too early for us. #3: All of the public school half day K programs through Clover Park SD start at 8:00. Some of them do offer p.m. programs, & I haven't called about this to be sure, but from what I have heard they don't offer the p.m. class until the a.m. class is over-full. Which means I may not have a choice for p.m. until mid-year (Idlewild elem. just added the 1/2 day p.m. K class Jan. 2 - before that, a.m. was the only option). #4: The public school classrooms are WAY too huge. Idlewild started at 18 kids at the beginning of the year & then grew to 29 by October. It wasn't until they hit 32 that they split the class. Way. too big. I won't do it.
So, there are some other "creative" options, such as one friend from Kellen's class this year is going to send her son to Life Christian K for just part day most days, & then will add some full days in as the year goes on. The biggest 2 problems with that for Kellen is that he doesn't like to leave before the rest of the class (he doesn't like to be different - ha) & they do art & choices time in the p.m. part of the day, so he would miss his 2 favorite things every day. There is a school in Tacoma that is designed to be part day school with home school supplementation (which I was REALLY excited about) but it starts at 8:00 a.m. :(
I have a feeling that whatever we decide for next year for K will be a 1-yr. plan & it will change when we move on to 1st grade. And I am perfectly o.k. with that.:) We just have to figure out next year's plan first!
So, there are some other "creative" options, such as one friend from Kellen's class this year is going to send her son to Life Christian K for just part day most days, & then will add some full days in as the year goes on. The biggest 2 problems with that for Kellen is that he doesn't like to leave before the rest of the class (he doesn't like to be different - ha) & they do art & choices time in the p.m. part of the day, so he would miss his 2 favorite things every day. There is a school in Tacoma that is designed to be part day school with home school supplementation (which I was REALLY excited about) but it starts at 8:00 a.m. :(
I have a feeling that whatever we decide for next year for K will be a 1-yr. plan & it will change when we move on to 1st grade. And I am perfectly o.k. with that.:) We just have to figure out next year's plan first!
More Funnies
Kellen: "When daddy was little did he not want to get married either?"
(I may have posted this one before, but it's still funny): Kellen: "'Oh, Mama! We have got to get you one of those!' (movie line from Tangled). He wants to get one for his mom."
When Kaarin goes to bed, she always wants to find her "baby." This is whatever lovey she is attached to at the time, whether it's Woody, Panda Bear, doggy, etc. One night she was in bed & asking for her "baby." I asked if she wanted Woody, & she said: "No, Woody will talk in my bed & wake me up."
:)
(I may have posted this one before, but it's still funny): Kellen: "'Oh, Mama! We have got to get you one of those!' (movie line from Tangled). He wants to get one for his mom."
When Kaarin goes to bed, she always wants to find her "baby." This is whatever lovey she is attached to at the time, whether it's Woody, Panda Bear, doggy, etc. One night she was in bed & asking for her "baby." I asked if she wanted Woody, & she said: "No, Woody will talk in my bed & wake me up."
:)
Wednesday, January 25, 2012
Karrin, Kaarin & Kaarin...
Yesterday Annika, Kaarin & I went to Costco while Kellen was at school. (I gave him the option to go with us & he chose for us to go while he was at school). So while we were checking out, the checker's assistant says to me, "What's your little one's name?" I said Kaarin, & she said, "I thought I heard you call her that - that's my name too!" She spelled hers Karrin. As we were finishing up, the woman behind me was commenting on how nice it was to see little girls in dresses, & that her granddaughters always wear sweats. (Little does she know that I would love to see my one girl in pants every so often...!) Then she commented on the checker-helper's name & asked her how she pronounces it, & said that she has a daughter named Kaarin (spelled like mine). The checker-helper pointed to Kaarin & told the woman that it was HER name too! The woman says, "Really??! I made that name up! Well, my daughter is your age now..." What are the odds that there would be 3 people in the same place with Kaarin as a common name?? It is very uncommon.
First funnies of 2012!
One of the kids' jobs is to put away the silverware. It is fairly simple, & Kellen does a great job of just putting it away without complaining. Annika does pretty well, Kaarin I usually have to ask several times...yesterday it was her turn to do it, so she asked me to put her on the counter (usually they stand on a chair) so that she could see the drawer. I said, "O.K., Kaarin -- do the silverware." She says, "You do it!" I said, "No, Mommy doesn't put the silverware away, the kids do." She says, "Ok mommy. I the mommy & you the kid." A little more time & coversation passes, & I say again, "Kaarin, do the silverware." She says, "But I the Mommy - you the kid." Ha. Nice try!
The kids love to make a train out of the chairs in the dining room, including the art table chairs, so there is usually enough room for lots of riders.:) Last night the girls made a train, so I was the passenger (the boys were playing football). They said it was the polar express & we were heading for the north pole. Annika said that we were going to have hot chocolate soon, & so she & Kaarin brought some around. Annika took an 'extra' one & said, "I'm going to put this one down here (under the chair) to keep it safe for the boy in the back that I like, because he didn't get any."
While our power was out (the first night) we went out to dinner at El Toro. Before we left I had put on a blue fleece, then my coat. When we got to the restaurant, I took my coat off. Kaarin says, "It is like a sweater. You wearing Muss-more's (Bestemor) shirt?" :) She remembered that Bestemor has a blue fleece too.:)
Kellen was playing some game where he was 'getting' Annika. Kaarin says, "Let go of my sister!"
The kids love to make a train out of the chairs in the dining room, including the art table chairs, so there is usually enough room for lots of riders.:) Last night the girls made a train, so I was the passenger (the boys were playing football). They said it was the polar express & we were heading for the north pole. Annika said that we were going to have hot chocolate soon, & so she & Kaarin brought some around. Annika took an 'extra' one & said, "I'm going to put this one down here (under the chair) to keep it safe for the boy in the back that I like, because he didn't get any."
While our power was out (the first night) we went out to dinner at El Toro. Before we left I had put on a blue fleece, then my coat. When we got to the restaurant, I took my coat off. Kaarin says, "It is like a sweater. You wearing Muss-more's (Bestemor) shirt?" :) She remembered that Bestemor has a blue fleece too.:)
Kellen was playing some game where he was 'getting' Annika. Kaarin says, "Let go of my sister!"
Monday, January 23, 2012
Noses & hair...
We had to take Annika to the Dr. on Friday (in the midst of the power outage & nasty weather) for her NOSE. We thought she may have broken it. Last Tuesday she had fallen off of her (Stokke Tripp Trapp) chair at dinner & landed full impact on her nose (her feet had hooked under the chair & the momentum just took her straight down to the floor -- kind of hard to describe, but you get the idea). Anyway, it bled just a little bit, she cried for awhile, but then calmed down, & then she only complained if someone bumped it on accident. So I didn't worry too much about it. Until Friday morning (barely - she got up at 10:30!!) she came out & had this nice bruise across her nose & under her eyes!! So, I called the Dr. to see if I needed to do anything about that & they said that since it had 'spread' to her eye area that she needed to be seen. So Erik took her in, but it is not broken, just swollen! She really looks like she got beat up. It's probably a good thing we haven't really gone anywhere this weekend!
And on a funnier note, Kaarin seems to have developed this 'curl-hawk,' kind of a curl mohawk! It naturally does this when she wakes up every morning, & I have to fight it down, & then it comes back when she takes a nap or plays with her hair (which she does when she's tired)! It cracks me up, so I had to document it.:)
Sunday, January 22, 2012
Winter is here!
The first snow we had, mostly just a dusting.:)
Annika & Kellen were making an ice tower or something (I can't remember...). Annika is wearing a dress with no tights...her choice.

After the big snow (8 inches!) -- our street is so pretty!

Kellen & Daddy making a snowman.:)

The finished guy:
You probably can't tell from the picture, but this branch came crashing out of the tree & it is HUGE! It goes from the front of the playground all the way to the back - it hit the slide on the way down!

Out getting icicles: note the shoes - haha (& Annika's pjs...)

Notice in this picture how LOW the cherry tree branches are! They were touching the ground!!
S'mores time!
It's much more cozy looking without the flash.:) And, I have to say, I was quite impressed with my fire!!! Yay!

After the big snow (8 inches!) -- our street is so pretty!
Kellen & Daddy making a snowman.:)
The finished guy:
Out getting icicles: note the shoes - haha (& Annika's pjs...)
Notice in this picture how LOW the cherry tree branches are! They were touching the ground!!
We finally got some snow! The kids had been asking when it was going to snow, & it REALLY came through! Not only did we get snow, we got ice, then freezing rain, & a whole lot of mess to go with it. Then came the power outage...ours lasted 51.5 hrs. The kids actually handled it pretty well, they thought most of it was fun! :) We got to do some things we have never done before: a fire in our fireplace (I know! 10 yrs. in our house & we'd never used it!!), s'mores over said fire, spending the night at our cousins' house ( we have a book from the library called "Henry & Mudge & the Sleepover" so they were so excited to get to have a sleepover!!)...in addition we got to have meals out, lunch by candlelight, our buddy Aaron came to play in the dark, & the kids made up a flashlight game! Aside from being a little cold, we did pretty well. But we were blessed with being able to spend one night with our cousins (did I mention that when we told the kids that our power was back on, they were thoroughly disappointed???). Kellen slept (in the same bed) with his cousin Kendall (who turned 5 today!), Annika slept with cousin Kenzie (7), & Kaarin slept on the floor with them all in her sleeping bag.:) (The first time she has ever slept out of the crib!). They were all really cute.:)
A couple of funnies from the storm:
* At the cousins' house, as we were getting the kids ready for bed, I hear Kellen & Kendall have this conversation:
Kellen: "...see, smell my doggy!"
Kendall: "Well, smell MY doggy!"
*As we were huddled around the fire (at our house) keeping warm, Annika sticks her index finger in front of Kellen & says: "Here. You like boogies. Eat it."
HAHAHAHA!
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